Unhappiness – A Case Study
Understanding the Misery from close
Wednesday, July 19, 2017
Written By: M Osama Shahzad
The nature is created in a perfectly balanced shape.
Everything is on its specified place. The attributes given to humans are in
perfect form, but with the choice there came the infinite possibilities and
when this scale of possibilities was created, it was created with ends, the
positive and the negative as well.
Happiness was made and so was the unhappiness. Now some
people may argue that a person has to be neither happy nor sad but on the
absolute zero on the scale to achieve perfection but this isn’t entirely right.
It is not right because perfection in our human language means something that
is best for us, means positivity, the scale may differ as some people settles
for least while for some nothing can kill the thirst.
Unhappiness is the state when the values start moving the wrong
way from the absolute zero i.e. nothingness. Things start moving downhill or
the lack of positivism and happiness.
Unhappiness is caused by three factors mainly:
· Lack of Happiness
· Dissatisfaction
· Being stuck in Past
Any one of the above mentioned things will cause us to slide
down. Unhappiness affects us socially, psychologically and destroys our mental
peace.
The biggest cause of any feeling in this world is us, we are the driver in our life and
no negativity can defeat us until we let ourselves fall. Life is not fair, it never was, it will hit you badly and test you
in worst possible ways but you only loose when you let yourself fall and
importantly when you refuse to stand up.
Unhappiness corrupts the book of happiness and darkens all
the sweet memories, the good past vanishes and all a person remembers is dark
and difficult times and miseries. Pessimist take over the mind and in 1000s of
good things, the defeated manages to see 1 fault. This not only affects us but
also sucks up happiness of all around us, all those to whom we matter are affected
by us the most. Hence pessimism because of unhappiness not only makes people
unkind and socially awkward but also villains for those who care about them.
Unhappiness is like a chemical reaction gone wrong, like corrosion,
like acid burning. Sometimes, like corrosion, some factors slowly take the
happiness and eat people from inside while other times, its more stimuli and a
factor just start the fire.
In the world of unhappiness, the type that spreads slowly is
usually treacherous and unforgiving than the later, because usually if someone
fall suddenly, it gives the one time to analyze what happened, note down and eliminate
the factors, work on the emotions and get back on feet.
While on the other hand, if unhappiness penetrates from the
inside slowly and spread in the body like cancer, it’s much more hazardous. Not
because it’s not treatable but because it takes away hope and teaches its
victim to survive in the unhappy state. It enchants the victim in its spell and
the fallen don’t find the power to even stand up again.
The later kind is dangerous and scary but people can get
over it too. It plays the same trick that’s played by the elephant keepers on a
baby elephant by chaining it and playing with its psychology to take its hope
of freedom away. It’s usually very late when they realize that they could have
broken those chains, they could have been happy this entire time. Yes, if there
is a sudden light that can show them the path to get out of that dark pit hole,
if there is a hope, if there is a hand on their shoulder, then and only then
their chains can be broken and unhappiness can be neutralized just like Acid is
neutralized by a Base and a buffer stops further damage.
So be the base and buffer in this society where there is so much acidity. Be the love you desire and happiness you look for. Spread Happiness and neutralize the negativity, for sake of you and the ones you love.
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